Jan 14 8:09pm Me: Both kids are getting sick. Just want to warn you so you can get Tylenol/Motrin if you don’t already have some. Also to set up the humidifier in their room. So far it is just cough and runny noses.
Jan 14 9:54pm G: thanks for the heads up. I have plenty of meds. I have been looking around and I can’t seem to find either of the humidifiers. Did you take the one I bought with you?
Jan 15 11:25am Me: I took the green frog one. I left the square white and blue one.
Jan 15 1:32pm G: Not sure where you left it then… I am sure it’s not at my house.
Jan 15 1:34pm Me: It was left on the floor in Ts room when we moved out. Don’t know what you did with it since last may.
Jan 15 1:45pm G: I remember being irritated that you took it when you moved since I had just bought it. Maybe one of your helpers grabbed it…? It really don’t change that I get sick kids, again. Has the doctor said anything about Ts cough that never seems to go away? Or that S and T are always suffering from some sort of ailment?
Jan 15 1:51pm Me: I haven’t taken them to a doc but you can take them tomorrow. I haven’t experienced T having a cough any other time than now. And I deal with sick kids too. Its called parenting. And it is cold and flu season so it is to be expected.
Jan 15 1:53pm Me: and I did a walk through after everyone left and the humidifier was in Ts room on the floor.
Jan 15 2:02pm G: as I said the humidifier doesn’t matter. I am getting pretty frustrated with the kids being sick for the last 4 months. I have caught more than a few bugs from them. Every time I drop the kids off or pick them up at least 2 kids in T’s class have snot all down their faces. T has had a cough for MONTHS, since august. Seeing them so little I guess I notice it more. If you want to pay the copays and provide an insurance card, Ill take them in. What time should I expect you tomorrow?
Jan 15 2:04pm Me: I will drop them off at the normal time. And I pay for enough and you don’t pay for nearly enough. So far I don’t see a need for a doc so if you want them to go you can take them and pay. If you don’t have the money GET A JOB
Jan 15 2:05pm G: ok see you at 6:30
Jan 15 2:08pm G: keep in mind that I have offered many times to watch the kids while you are at work. You opted for daycare and the extra expense yourself, so that is on you.
**I took S into the doc today. She has an ear infection. I will be sending him a copy of the receipt soon to add to the other $65 in unpaid medical bills he owes for.
What the hell! It sounds like he's accusing YOU of something because the kids are always sick. Kids get sick, they share germs. They don't have the hygiene that adults do. WTH is his problem about the damn humidifier. You told him it was there. Instead of "I must have misplaced it, I'll just have to go get another one." he accusing YOU of taking it. What do you have to gain by taking it? Even if you had so what? But you didn't and you gain nothing by lying about it so what the hell!?! What a douche canoe. So glad your free of that little gem.
ReplyDeleteI don't understand why he thinks the kids have been sick for 4 months. They haven't been sick in a while!! "he notices it more" and so I'm a bad parent that doesn't notice our kids are sick?? No... They HAVENT BEEN SICK!
ReplyDeleteBecause it seems to me he's angling to keep the kids. You know, since they go to daycare, they must be sick "all" the time. He's probably using it as a chess move to say "you know the kids are sick from that daycare so they should stay with me to be healthier and therefore I get a child support reprieve." I mean he mentions it every time you guys talk about stuff. He's trying anything he can to angle it his way. *Shakes my head*
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