Apr 15 8:35am Me: Please find the 2009 tax info so I can prepare and file it.
Apr 15 8:36am G: I think I know where it is. I will look for it later.
Apr 15 11:51 Me: Verizon need to be paid today…FWD: This is a reminder of an arrangement you’ve made on your Verizon Wireless account. Please dial #PMT to complete or call with any questions.
Apr 15 12:41pm G: what about the email I sent you? Are you going to address the $200 you still need to pay me? Have you paid the $50 you owe for arrowhead? What about your share of the directtv bill? Directtv could be lowered a few bucks but it still needs to be accounted for. When are you going to pay these accounts or me for that matter?
Apr 15 12:45pm Me: I will address the spreadsheet later. I paid arrowhead. I paid for the water. I paid cox. I paid credit union cc. And I paid daycare. I told you I will not pay direct tv. Im tapped out after spending $945 on bills yesterday. We will go over the spreadsheet at a later date.
Apr 15 1:09 G: you feel that you can just dictate how I spend money. I am sorry you are tapped out but I am now paying another bill until you address the $200 you owe me. you do owe part of directv and that needs to be addressed to. You can owe me lass money by forfeiting your interest in the school pictures. That would save you $49.
Apr 15 1:18 Me: I paid the past due of Verizon. I repeat, remove your number onto its own plan by Tuesday.
Apr 15 1:26 Me: PS. I already “paid” for the pics the last time I went grocery shopping. It was #100 and I paid all of it.
Apr 15 1:40 G: please add Verizon and the groceries to the spread sheet.
Apr 15 1:46 Me: Verizon IS on the spreadsheet
Apr 15 4:43 G: 2009 taxes are on the printer. We owe $484 aprox. The docs show a $484 extention payment that wasn’t made
(As we pulled up G was walking out of the house. He kissed the kids and said goodbye. I asked him if I should plan on him being home later. He said probably not. I said, “Have fun at Sheena’s” as I walked inside.)
Apr 15 5:16 G: why are you invading my privacy?
Apr 15 5:19 Me: Im not invading your privacy. Your alarm went off the other night and a text came in on your phone I didn’t read it just saw the name. Did I hit a nerve? How do you think I feel???? Not that it matters to you.
Apr 15 5:37 G: look. You broke it off with me. I wanted to give things another try. I wanted to get back to days so we’ have time together. I needed that time to fall back in love with you. I knew once we had some significant time together we could be really good together. All I needed was a little time to see what a great person you are again. That’s all I needed.
Apr 15 5:39 Me: Your right. I broke it off. And the NEXT day you were out looking for someone new. Whatever
Apr 15 6:15 G: it is my way of coping. I didn’t want you to find out or hurt you. I leave the house because I am uncomfortable because it feels like we are still married when we watch tv together.
Apr 15 6:33 Me: It IS uncomfortable. But this is the situation right now. Find a place to live and we can put the house up for a short sale. Then we wouldn’t have to live in this uncomfortable position.
Apr 15 6:40 G: move out and incur rent expenses and child support while you live with minimal expenses. Ya right!I want the house remember? You move out so I can feel ok catching up the mortgage and so I can get roommates. I can either get an attorney and force you out with the divorce decree or you can move out nicely at the end of the month. as soon as I get that you are moving out in writing I will pay the mortgage current.
Apr 15 6:51 Me: I already asked my attorney and she said since the house is in BOTH our names I can’t force you out. Works vice versa. And I told you as soon as you can refi out of my name I will be happy to leave. And don’t sound high and mighty about money. You have paid 4 things in the past month. And you act like I am dictating your money.
Apr 15 7:06 G: is S in bed yet. I am home and feel like poopy but I don’t want to interrupt her routine. (Came home and stated he had called in sick and was going to bed)
No comments:
Post a Comment