**How to exaplin everything that happened? One day G and I were talking and he asked what type of parenting plan I wanted. I told him I could not discuss it with him. He would have to talk to my lawyer. He pressed the issue and so finally I gave him my absolute low ball answer. The kids would live with me and visit him 1 nihgt during the week and for 4 hours on the weekends. He scoffed, said it would never happen and went to take a shower. I never expected it to happen anyway. After he got out of the shower he came to me and told me he would be willing to agree to that parenting plan if I agreed to move out of the house. I said I would agree and my lawyer drafted up the paperwork. We both signed with that parenting plan and an agreement that he would pay $350/month in temporary support.
I moved out on 5/6. At my lawyers suggestion I had family and friends come over after G went to work and we moved me and the kids out in the middle of the night. Here is the note I left:
The next morning he was concerned about seeing the kids and I refused for him to see them at that time since I knew he was upset about me moving. Later that night I sent him a text saying he could have the kids for a few hours on Sunday even though it was Mother’s Day. He said he only wanted them for 2 hours and would have them back before dinner. He picked them up at 3pm and called to have me get them at 5pm.
I called him last night to arrange for the kids to spend today with him. He wouldn’t be able to have them over night as he had picked up and extra shift at work and would therefore be working tonight. But I had planned on dropping the kids off in the morning so he could have them for the day, as stated in my letter. Well, on the phone last night he said because I took all the furniture he wasn’t able to take the kids and care for them properly. When I moved I had left the pack N play for TJ to nap/sleep in. Savannah has slept in his bed on many occasions so I figured she could do that now. And on Saturday he post a pic on Facebook of a new kitchen table he bought. He could have also bought a toddler bed if he was concerned.
Finally, he contacted me to see the kids overnight. Over a week after I had moved.
May 11 8:33pm G: I was hoping to have the kids Sunday morning. Can I pick them up at 8?
I moved out on 5/6. At my lawyers suggestion I had family and friends come over after G went to work and we moved me and the kids out in the middle of the night. Here is the note I left:
G,
I felt it was better to move when you were not here to help make sure that things did not escalate during the move.
I have taken an approximate value of half of the personal property. I also took items that were directly related to the Best Buy card in my name. If at some point you want to buy an item back from me, I am open to negotiating that down the road.
I am scheduling the City of Peoria water, SRP electric, Cox internet, and Arrowhead water to be cancelled effective May 16th. I am also removing the van from the insurance. Please put these accounts in your name by May 16 so you don't have an interruption in any services you want to keep.
The kids and I are living with my Mom and C for now. I will keep you posted if/when this changes. The kids will continue to attend the same daycare.
We can talk on Monday about if you want to have the kids on Tuesday or not and how we will arrange the pick-up/drop-off.
If you have any questions, please contact my attorney.
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The next morning he was concerned about seeing the kids and I refused for him to see them at that time since I knew he was upset about me moving. Later that night I sent him a text saying he could have the kids for a few hours on Sunday even though it was Mother’s Day. He said he only wanted them for 2 hours and would have them back before dinner. He picked them up at 3pm and called to have me get them at 5pm.
I called him last night to arrange for the kids to spend today with him. He wouldn’t be able to have them over night as he had picked up and extra shift at work and would therefore be working tonight. But I had planned on dropping the kids off in the morning so he could have them for the day, as stated in my letter. Well, on the phone last night he said because I took all the furniture he wasn’t able to take the kids and care for them properly. When I moved I had left the pack N play for TJ to nap/sleep in. Savannah has slept in his bed on many occasions so I figured she could do that now. And on Saturday he post a pic on Facebook of a new kitchen table he bought. He could have also bought a toddler bed if he was concerned.
Finally, he contacted me to see the kids overnight. Over a week after I had moved.
May 11 8:33pm G: I was hoping to have the kids Sunday morning. Can I pick them up at 8?
May 11 8:35pm Me: yes
May 11 8:35pm G: thank you
May 15 7:31am G: Are the kids ready to be picked up?
May 15 7:41am G: I am here to get the kids are they ready to go yet?
May 15 7:42am Me: Sorry. I was in the shower. Yes they are ready… just need socks and shoes.
May 15 7:43am G: Bring them out when ready
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