Schedule changes...

Emails:

From: G
Sent: Friday, June 10, 2011 6:32 AM
To: Me
Subject: FW: Schedule

A,

Here is my schedule for next week.  I would like the kids Sunday afternoon say 1-5 or 2-6.  If you want to go by the same schedule as before, you can drop them off Tuesday morning at 7 but I will need to return them to you by 1:30 Wednesday. 

I would like to change our agreement as we discussed we would need to do when I switched to days.  I would like to have the kids more often now.  They really don’t have a chance to settle in due to how brief the visit is.  I would like something closer to 50/50.  This would mean having them both of my days off, and either taking them to daycare, or to your mom’s before I go to work when my week starts.  Then I would like to have them part of the weekend, over night either Friday, Saturday, or Sunday depending on which day I have an early shift.  I would pick them up between 3 and 4 and return them the next morning no later than 11 am to you or daycare if the overnight was Sunday night.

What do you think we can work out?

From: Me
Sent: Friday, June 10, 2011 9:12 AM
To: G
Subject: RE: Schedule

For Sunday and next week:

Sunday 2-6 would work better so they have time to wake up from nap and have lunch. And then you would need to make sure they eat dinner before coming home.

I can drop the kids off Monday morning at 6:30am and you can take them to daycare on Wednesday before 11am (cannot drop off kids between 11am – 2pm per the daycare). OR I can drop the kids off on Tuesday morning at 6:30am and you can take them to daycare on Wednesday before 11am. But then you would need to pay for the extra day of daycare for the week @ $70 for the day.

*I do want to mention for Wednesday, as you have seen in the past, S is really used to getting to school and having her cereal and then going to class. They serve the cereal from 6am-7:30am. If you will be dropping   her off after 7:30 just keep in mind she may have a tough time. Just an FYI.

As for the agreement on parenting time going forward, give me some time to think about it and discuss with my lawyer. I will let you know.

 

Dear G:

            It is my understanding that you have changed your shifts at work.  Please note that Mother is willing to cooperate with you to make sure you maintain the current court ordered parenting time.  Mother is willing to provide the children to you each week from 7:00 a.m. on one of your days off until 4:00 p.m. the next day.  Mother will not insist that the day be Tuesday every week but will provide the children on another day if you are working Tuesday. However, in order for this to be done you must provide Mother by Friday of each week the day you wish to have the children the following week.  Mother assumes that you will continue with your four hour block each weekend. 

            Please do not hesitate to contact my office should you have any questions or concerns regarding the above.

           

                                                            Very truly yours,

                                                                        atty