Insurance

May 27 6:49am G: Did you cancel the policy on the Escape?

May 27 7:04am Me: No. I moved you to the main policy holder and left it under your name with the home owners policy.

May 27 7:06am G: I wish you would have told me that you did that sooner.

May 27 7:06am Me: y

May 27 7:20am G: its called open and honest communication, it is necessary for joint legal custody of our kids to work. If I can’t trust you to be open with an insurance policy how can I without kids? The next time you do something that impacts me, tell me at your earliest possible convenience. No open communication between us equals the court awarding sole custody to one of us whether we like that decision or not. I sent your attorney an email last night.

(WTH does insurance have to do with our kids and custody???)

May 27 7:22am Me: In the letter I left I said I would be removing my name from all our joint accounts. I just took my name to a new policy. Don’t give me crap about open communication.

May 27 7:28am G: that’s true, but you can still be held liable for anything with the house or the car so it doesn’t make sense for you not to be on the policies. I declared that I would pay for the escape policy so why wouldn’t you want to keep yourself protected? This is an insurance policy that protects us from further liability, not really a joint account in so many words.

May 27 7:31am Me: I don’t drive the car and I don’t live in the house. There is no reason for me to be on the policy. YOU still hold a policy so everything is still protected. It doesn’t need me on it. I still don’t understand why the f all this matters. What got your panties in a bunch?

May 27 7:33am G: I went to check the balance on the policy and the farmers site said there weren’t any active policies.

May 27 7:34am Me: call Doug cuz it should still be intact.

May 27 7:36am G: I left him a message. I called farmers just now and it is still in tact but I can’t access it online because the online access was in your name. I have to register for access.

May 27 7:37am Me: Ok then. You are fine and can stop taking it out on me.

May 27 7:39 am G: this could have been avoided had you said you took your name off the policy without canceling it when you made the change

May 27 7:41am Me: I DIDN’T CANCEL IT! I just removed my name. I didn’t know they had to change anything on the original policy other than removing my name until I got the paperwork mailed to me.

May 27 7:43am G: ok calm down I wasn’t trying to ruin your day. I know you didn’t cancel it. I just would have appreciated a heads up when you made the change. That’s all. Have a good day. Sorry for upsetting you.

May 27 7:44am Me: your email did that

May 27 7:46am G: I forgot I put it in the email. Again I apologize. Do you mind paying for half the yard work or do you want to help me do it?

May 27 7:48am Me: Neither. I have no money. I barely make it paying for daycare and rent and stuff. Your joke child support doesn’t even pay half of daycare let alone anything else. Do it yourself.

May 27 7:52am G: Unfortunately we are both responsible, find a cheaper daycare center. You didn’t have to agree to the amount so don’t insult it. I put down what I could afford. I wanted to try to work things out remember? Do you remember why? Of course you do. These are the consequences of your actions and we are both going to suffer for it for years to come. I await a response from your attorney.

May 27 7:54am Me: You want to work it out for money. I don’t want to stay in a loveless marriage for money. Especially when you keep spending all the money. Don’t talk to me about what you can and can’t afford. New table, new 3d projector, etc.

May 27 8:04am G: well you took the tv so I replaced it using mostly gift cards and the table was really cheap from the salvation army. Had you left me either to use while we complete this process I wouldn’t have had to get either. That is problem with taking everything like you did. I was forced into buying a lot of stuff immediately. Tell me, have you achieved anything positive by sneaking around and moving out in the middle of the night? I was mad as hell until I realized I could replace 99.9% of everything you took.