Date night

Sep 13 1:03pm G: I need a sitter from 4:30 to 8:30 tomorrow night. Do you want to use your first right of refusal or should I find someone else?

Sep 13 1:23pm G: I have another sitter so I need to know what to tell them. Are you available tomorrow or not? We agreed to and it has been ordered to allow the other parent the option of first right of refusal for any period 4 hours or longer.

Sep 13 1:25pm Me: 830 is after bedtime. Where do you expect the kids to be at? And I can’t find a better way to put this but what takes precedence over the time with your kids???

Sep 13 1:27pm G: That isn’t a question I have to answer.

Sep 13 1:28pm Me: Drop them off at my house at 430. I will bring them back to you Thursday morning.

Sep 13 1:35pm Me: Do me a favor… don’t bitch about how much the kids miss you if you are just going to give up your time with them an hour later.

Sep 13 1:50pm Me: I will plan on you bringing the kids to me tomorrow at 430.

Sep 13 1:52pm G: Ok but I will pick them up at 830. You missed the point of why I was upset. Yes I miss the kids. I was upset because tj didn’t’ want me to leave him at day care.

Sep 13 1:53pm Me: No the kids will be in bed at 8:30. I will bring them over Thursday morning.

Sep 13 1:55pm G: I will cut my engagement short. Nevermind

**the kids ended up coming to my house for the night and I took them back in the morning. I later found out he went out for a date night this night. This from someone who wants 50/50 custody and yet has the kids only 8 nights a month and he gives up one of those nights for a date.