Aug 10 9:53am G: so my schedule is Monday thru Friday night audit. I am not sure what I can change yet. I want to keep my prior engagement Monday so that means I could pick up the kids while on my way home for the rest of the week. I’ll sleep at work so I get the extra hours I need.
Aug 10 9:54am Me: I don’t agree with you watching the kids after you have been at work all night.
Aug 10 10:06am G: I did it just fine for 3 years and I just said I will sleep at work. I should be able to get 3-4 hours at work plus 5 hours before work if you get the kids by 4:30. That is more than enough sleep. IF NOT I may have to quit.
Aug 1010:13am Me: It wasn’t ok for those 3 years. I wanted the kids in daycare and was very uncomfortable leaving them home when you haven’t slept. THE ANSWER IS NO. if you want to have the kids Sunday night and return them Monday at 4 we can do that. Then we can plan for you to pick them up from daycare Thursday or Friday after you have slept and have dinner with them. Then the following week you can have them overnight one night by picking them up from daycare and taking them back before you start work the next day. Then of course the weekend of the 26th.
Aug 10 10:15am G: I guess you are forcing me to quit
Aug 10 10:19am Me: I am not forcing you to do anything. I even found a way for you to have time with your kids around your schedule. You make your own choices in life and I no longer get the blame for any of them.
Aug 10 10:36am G: this is an emergency. Answer the phone.
(This is where G admitted he knocked up his g/f and she was now having a miscarriage. He didn’t feel he could continue to watch the kids. I told him to take them to daycare. When he got there daycare was full and couldn’t accept more kids. I was unable to find anyone to watch them so I was forced to leave work.)
Aug 10 3:11pm Me: how are you doing? How is your g/f?
Aug 10 3:42pm G: I am pretty tore up. Its tearing "g/f" up. Right now she is acting like nothing happened. The pain she must be going through and the only thing I can equate it to its kind of like losing T or S which is pretty saddening. Ill talk to you about it a little later. Maybe you can help explain some of what’s going on with her body later. But basically her hormone level isn’t increasing enough
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