Trying to get $$... HAHAHA

From: A
Sent: Wednesday, May 30, 2012 8:46 AM
To: G
Subject: Daycare
I have been thinking about the extra charge for daycare. Since you would need to pay 1/2 of the extra days; you can pay that every 2 weeks when you pick up the kids. So $70 per day/2 = $35 X 2 days per week = $70 per week X 2 weeks = $140. Please pay $140 to the daycare on the Fridays you pick up the kids. 
A


From: G
Sent: Wednesday, May 30, 2012 10:02 AM
To: A
Subject: Re: Daycare
All the payments I make will be directly to the child support account.  I will not be paying the daycare or you directly.

From: A
Sent: Wednesday, May 30, 2012 10:17 AM
To: G
Subject: Re: Daycare
The child support account does not take into account the extra days of daycare. You and your lawyer fought for it to be this way with understanding that you would pay for extra days at daycare. It is expicitly writtin in the decree.

From: G
Date: Wed, May 30, 2012 at 10:37 AM
To: A
Subject: RE: Daycare
I will pay the extra expense through the child support account

From: G
Sent: Wednesday, May 30, 2012 11:52 AM
To: A
Subject: RE: Daycare
You are right; I did arrange it that way.  However, it depends on what the department of child support enforcement does to my checks;  If they garnish my wages I won’t be able to pay any extra until the past due is caught up and they stop the wage garnishment.   Until I know what they are going to do, I can’t make any promises either way.   
If DCSE doesn’t garnish my wages, we will need to discuss a reasonable way for me to get caught up and claim S for 2012.   It is a commission based position with a low base so I can’t make any commitments until I have an idea what my commission will be like. 

From: A
Sent: Wednesday, May 30, 2012 12:20 PM
To: G
Subject: Re: Daycare
I called DES and asked them how this should be handled. They told me that it needs to be handled like medical fees. You should pay those to me directly. They cannot track them and therefore cannot process them. Any payments you make through the clearing house will go towards child support or your arrears. Which would leave you with unreimbursed daycare as well as medical.

If you are worried about tracking them you shouldn’t be. I have a book to track all of these. If you like we can both sign the book as a “receipt” that you paid. Or, as I suggested, you can pay the daycare direct. Did you know when payments are made they make notes as to who paid it? Yes, they do. Also, you would have your bank account statement to show that you paid.

You need to budget for these payments because the daycare still needs to be paid and medical expenses still need to be paid. I have been struggling to support them entirely for the past 6 months and cannot afford 5 days a week by myself. I need you to be vested in supporting your children.

From: G
Sent: Wednesday, May 30, 2012 3:51 PM
To: A
Subject: Re: Daycare
Like I said in my previous email:


“it depends on what the department of child support enforcement does to my checks;  If they garnish my wages I won’t be able to pay any extra until the past due is caught up and they stop the wage garnishment.  Until I know what they are going to do, I can’t make any promises either way.”  


You didn’t get it the first time I said it so let me be a little more blunt.  I will discuss this with you when I start getting a paycheck.