Job, schedule, ex - oh my!

First, G got a job! And the best part was sine he was on unemployment as soon as he updated with them it updated DES and the child support was immediately able to go after his checks. It will still take time to process in the system but at least I wont have the waiting time like when he started at Cox.

Unfortunately a new job means a new schedule. As soon as he got the job he told me what he THINKS his schedule will be. Then when he got his schedule he emailed it to me but said he didn't' know what plan for the kids but would "like to keep his Monday's free". Pish! Yea right buddy! I would like to have my Saturdays; free but I can't. It is called being a parent!! Later I emailed him again asking about his schedule and what he plans to do about the kids counseling since he was supposed to be taking them. He worked it out to be able to take S last week but never sent a schedule. (was supposed to be able to take T to counseling this week but cxled last night) So I waited and waited. And finally I got annoyed and sent him this email...

I am quite frustrated and I am apt to come off sounding bitchy. Fair warning. It is just that you get pissed off at me when I tell you how things are going to be but yet you take no responsibility to do them yourself. I have given you ample time and opportunity to figure shit out. I don't understand how it is so hard to look at your schedule and say, "The is what I want for parenting time". It isn't rocket science. I have attached a schedule. I will assume it is the plan unless I hear otherwise WITH A DECENT ALTERNATIVE SUGGESTED.

Sunday	Monday	Tuesday	Wednesday	Thursday	Friday	Saturday
	1	2	3	4	5	6
7	8	9	10	11	12	13
14	15	16	17	18	19	20
	(pick up after	(Drop off in	Drop off at	S Bday		Pick up after
	Work??)	Am??)	School	Ice cream after work?		work
21	22	23	24	25	26	27
		Drop off at
		school
28	29	30	31
	(pick up after	(Drop off in	Drop off at	*S starts
	Work??)	Am??)	School	Kindergarten*

He took the kids today but I still haven't heard about this weekend or anything else. :-/OH! And last night we were arguing about the drop off today. He was trying to get them last night but couldn't make it there until after 8pm and I refused to keep the kids up that late for him to get them. he knows bedtime is at 7 and with school starting soon I think it is important to keep with good bedtime habits. Plus they had a very busy weekend and we were ALL worn out from it. So then he said I couldn't drop them off until after 630; knowing I have boot camp at 630. I told him I would bring them at 6. He refused and told me he didn't have to accommodate for my class. For which I responded, "No, I just always have to accommodate for yours. Work, date nights, game nights, headaches, etc." Then he said he would be in Mesa this Thursday and would "let me know" if he can see the kids for her bday. Which means he will call on that day and I am expected to drop any plans I have made to accommodate him seeing her. *sigh*

And in other news I still haven't met up with the ex. She cxled our last meeting because she was sick and worried she had strep. She said she would call when she was feeling better. I didn't hear from her until two nights ago. She was looking to set up meeting again and I told her I would have to get back to her since G can't get his schedule together. I am hoping we will be able to meet this Saturday. She did ask if I "wanted to do this on the phone" but I said in person would be best. I still don't know what she wants to talk about or thinks this meeting is about. I am starting to think it isn't about getting our kids together. :-(