The End of April

George saw the kids on Sunday night/Monday before we flew out for PA on Tuesday 4/10. He hasn't seen them since. He informed me he had rented a house and would be moving to Mesa while we were in PA.

Apr 18 8:23am Me: Home safe

April 18th: I emailed a couple pics from vacation

Apr 21 8:44am Me: (video of T - after showing me the magnent of G from his calendar several times and asking where is daddy I decided to video tape T with the magnet. I then sent it to G. I tried to upload the video but was unsuccessful. I will try again later when I can fool with it but I am not sure if blogger supports videos.)
Apr 21 9:15am G: give S and T hugs for me please (attached was a video he took of himself sending them love and saying he would see them Monday, Tuesday, or possibly Wednesday.)
Apr 21 9:34am Me: were you going to set up visitation so they know when they will see you?

He called Sunday night. He talked to each of the kids briefly then talked to me. Said he thinks he will get the kids from daycare Wednesday and keep them until Friday or possibly Saturday. The kids were behaving badly and I was having a hard time talking to him and had a few things I wanted to discuss so I said I would call him after bedtime. I called at 8ish and he said they were eating dinner so I told him I would email him.

On Sun, Apr 22, 2012 at 8:38 PM, A wrote:

I would like to set up a schedule of parenting time. Most parenting time is set days but due to your schedule at CV we had a flexable one that is pretty unorthadox. So now you have moved and are getting more settled. I understand you don't have a job right now but you can easily schedule interviews around your parenting time just like you would do if you had a job and were looking for a new one. But we all need a more scheduled life. The kids need to know when they will see you. And I would like to know what I am doing from one week to the next. Also, you have talked about signing S up for classes and I have thought about it too but it is hard to schedule anything if I don't know if she will be there or here. I especially want the kids to get into swim classes as soon as they open up. That is goal #1. Then a tumbling class would be great for them as well.

So if we could set up a regular schedule. Like, you always have them Monday nights. And every other week Tuesday and Wednesday nights. OR any other night. That would benifit us all. And then when you do get a job we can change it to be whatever fits in with your job. I just want to get off of this ever changing schedule. It sucks. All around.

Also, I wanted to update about the child support. I have a case with DES now so the new Atlas number is ----------. This should make it so you are able to make payments online until you get a job and have the auto deduct started again. Are you able to make any payments?

Lastly, have you called The Bank about a voluntary surrender? With you living outside the house now we are subject to penilties of repayment of the 1st time home buyer credt. Also, I recently received several notices from the HOA for weed violations and this would relieve any obligations of the HOA as well.

Thanks,

A

Another email from me the next day:
On Mon, Apr 23, 2012 at 3:46 PM, A wrote:

The state took the back taxes that were designated to you in the divorce out of my tax refund. Please see the attached. You owe me $563.33 for payment of these back taxes.

Attachement: Official Gov. letter

Apr 23 7:11pm G: kids visit is going to have to be weds.
Apr 23 7:21pm Me: only weds?
Apr 23 7:22pm G: no. weds thru friday afternoon or saturday morning
Apr 23 7:23pm Me: ok. I was planning on wed thru sat morning didn't know there was the poss of something different. Can you pick them up wed morning?
Apr 23 7:26pm G: weds from daycare or you
Apr 23 7:26pm Me: or me?
Apr 23 7:32pm G: we will get them from day care

Apr 25 3:33pm G: at DES in Mesa. Been here 90+ minutes. still haven't been called up. will go pick up the kids as soon as I am done here.
Apr 25 3:38pm Me: Does this mean I need to get the kidss from daycare? I have plans tonight so I need to know as soon as you figure it out so I can cxl. But if you can make it then please do. They are expecting you and will be upset if I get them.
Apr 25 3:39pm G: being seen right now
Apr 25 3:52pm G: omw to get the kids
Apr 25 8:10pm Me: How were the kids this evening?
Apr 25 8:13 G: we are still getting settled
Apr 25 8:13pm Me: tough night?
Apr 25 8:16pm G: just getting home a little late and excited dogs and such

Apr 26 10:19am G: why does S think her shoes go on with Dora on the inside?
Apr 26 10:20am Me: I don't know. She is usually great at knowing. Maybe just exerting independence?? Being silly??


Apr 27 12:06pm G: what time tomorrow morning?
Apr 27 12:15pm Me: What are you thinking? 10am?
Apr 27 12:18pm G: I was thinking 10:30 or 11.
Apr 27 12:19pm Me: ok sounds good.