No longer allow at MY house

Nov 1 4:26pm Me: I forgot I have the kids school pics here if you want to see. If you haven’t made it far you can come back and see them.

*came back and made a big scene about the title to the Escape. He demanded I give him the title or he would "cause a scene". Took my phone away when I tried to call the cops. I later called to report the incident but the cops wouldn’t take a report because he made no “violent threats”. Suggested I get an Order of Protection.

Nov 6 7:18pm Me: I need you to communicate what your plan is for the next few days. The papers say you will pick them up from daycare on the first day. Is that what you plan to do? It also says you will drop them off at daycare on Thursday. I need to know the plan. You HAVE to start communicating with me.

Nov 6 7:28pm G: I thought you were going to bring the kids over tomorrow morning. I can pick them up from daycare if you prefer. I need to be able to find another job but I still want to be able to see the kids. Obviously I can’t pay my regular support, I would be happy to watch the kids while I am looking so you wouldn’t have to bear the extra expense.

Nov 6 7:31pm Me: I didn’t know where I was dropping them off because you haven’t communicated with me. I will drop them off in the morning but then you can take them to daycare on Thursday morning and I will pick them up from there in the afternoon. They should continue to go for their education and so you have time to look for a new job.

Nov 6 7:54pm G: I apologize. I thought we had discussed this the other day. That would be great if you could drop them off. I have no problem dropping them off Thursday. I appreciate you taking my job search into consideration. However, now that I have more free time and I am going to be getting a new job I would like to have more time with the kids next week in case my new work and school demands keep me from dedicating all my future time solely with them to them. Would you be open to me having the kids while you are working next week?

Nov 6 7:57pm Me: If you want to keep them until Thursday afternoon then that is fine but we will meet in a public place to do exchanges from now on. I do not want you at my house anymore.

**He hasn't been to my house since!