**In the divorce he was granted ownership of the Ford Escape. Because He also settled to take on a Credit Card that is in my name only, I was granted a security intrest in the Escape. He was supposed to make on time payment to the Wells Fargo Visa or I could repo the car and sell it to cover the debt. We settled on this in July. The Divorce was final in September. No payments have ever been made. I started the process of a repo back at the beginning of November. Remember when he was demanding the title? I had the title transferred in my name only just the day before. I hired a repo man the next week. (Now it is January and I still have yet been able to get the car repoed. He parks in the garage at home, drives his g/f car, and doesn't have a job. *SIGH*)
Nov 28 3:34pm G: Since you filed for BK, I need to know your intentions with all the accounts in our names.
Nov 28 3:52pm G: what is the contact info for your bk attorney?
Nov 28 4:05pm G: I need your bk attorney’s info so I can find out what your intentions are with regards to our debts and whether or not I need to file too. Is it still "atty" or someone else?
Nov 28 4:30pm Me: All debts are listed in the bk. Are you still taking the kids tomorrow?
Nov 28 4:32pm G: yes. I need you bk’s attorney’s info so I can find out my rights. I also need the title to the car since you are no longer tied to the debts linked to our divorce decree. Please bring it over tomorrow.
Nov 28 4:50pm Me: G. ****** 623-***-****
Nov 28 4:58pm Me: As you stated we will no longer discuss our financial decisions.
Nov 28 5:00pm G: that’s fine. I don’t need to discuss this with you. I just want you to bring the title tomorrow please.
Nov 28 5:07pm Me: I still have a security interest in the car and will not be bringing the title.
Nov 28: 5:10pm G: how is that? You have eliminated your responsibilities to those debts therefore you have no security interest. Is there something I am missing? The only thing tied to the car is wells fargo, which you wont be paying.
Nov 28 6:58pm G: I just read the decree and since you have filed bk I will have to file bk. Therefore you don’t have an interest in the vehicle. Just bring me the title please.
Email:
From: G
Date: 11/30/11
To: me
4pm at QT.
Please be sure to offer me my first right of refusal for any days that you are not able to watch the kids. I may not exercise it but I would like the opportunity.
What are your intentions regarding the Ford Escape? It needs a lot of work; the brakes need to be done, belts replaced, an oil leak needs to be fixed, it needs a tune up and on and on. I don't want to do the work if you are planning something. Please clarify your intentions.
I would like to help you financially. I don't have cash but I can watch the kids. That would save you $75+ per day. In one month you would save about $1600; that would be equal to the $700 from me and a $900 savings to you. I know you need the money. This is what I can offer to help. This is an open offer but I do need 24 hours advance notice and I would want $35/day child support credit.
Thank you,
This is sick how he keeps using the children as a bargaining chip. I'm so glad you keep those children in a licensed daycare facility where they get healthy meals and a social life. Not some deadbeat, non-working father who wants to sit them in front of a t.v. and collect some kind of financial reprieve from not working. You're right. When would he go to interviews? What if he's sick? He'd leave you completely stranded. What an idiot. All he can see is how that situation would benefit him.
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